Moaning Minnie's Daily Rant, Eleanor Rossevelt quote

I don't know much about Eleanor Roosevelt
 but I know she said that if anyone makes you feel inferior then it's your fault, because it often pops up in book covers and in little books about aphorisms and clever comments that are meant to make your life easier. I think that's quite a good one actually, but you can't apply it to much else. you can't really say that if anyone hurts you then it's your fault can you?